Life keeps me in an exploring state, how about you? There are so many dances we do whether it's a tango or slow sway, we're occasionally being the partner who leads and other days we are the partner who steps on toes. I get into trouble when I do both. It works best for me these days to observe. Observe the situation, doing the best I can without judging what is in front of my eyes. As the ancient saying goes, "may be bad, may be good, who knows." Try to remain neutral.